ABOUT
ABOUT
When I was growing up,
When I was growing up,
I had “white picket fence” dreams. A kind, strong man and I would have a little family and a wonderful home and we’d feel so happy and safe all the time.
This is a pretty typical dream, especially for a child like me who, at age five, had to start learning how to take care of herself because she lived in a house full of drinking, drugs, and violence.
Not so many years later, I found myself in a life that looked something like that little girl’s fantasy...
I’m married, I’m home raising my first daughter, and I’m watching an episode of Oprah. They’re talking about making a vision board - though back then in the 90s they might have called it a “dream board.” While my baby naps, I pull out the scissors and glue and start to experiment. It feels so good to create something that reflects the real me.
When my husband gets home, I show him what I’d made and he says something like, “That’s nice.” I put the page away and I kept on being a wife and mom.
Learning the difference between a dream and vision
Learning the difference between a dream and Vision
A few short years later, I realized that my picket fence dream wasn’t going to last a lifetime. My two small children and I would leave that house with little more than the clothes on our back.
It was devastating. I’d worked so hard to create that perfect life for my kids and protect them from divorce and all of its disruptions. But I was strong and I had a vision that was much more powerful than my old fantasies. Drawing on the self-reliance that got me through my own childhood and blessed by what I can only describe as divine intervention, I found a corporate job and created a good life for us.
Fast forward through the years, and now you’ll find me a mother to three, living a new life... I’ve long since left that stressful career behind and I dedicate myself fully to faith, family, and helping my beloved clients find their way. I have my struggles, as everyone does, but I can tell you that every day is inspired by my quest for clarity and allowing my heart to lead me toward my own divine truth.
What gets in the way of making a vision a reality?
I’m much more content than I used to be, but I need to tell you: turning your soul’s vision into reality is a lifelong process.
Through a frightening childhood, the sorrow of divorce, and the challenges of being a single mom, I had developed a suit of armor.
It protected me so that none of my past hurts or day-to-day worries would hold me back, but it also isolated me. I prided myself on my resilience and my self-reliance.
Unfortunately, my super powers also meant that I couldn’t ask for help, I couldn’t feel my feelings, and I couldn’t figure out what I really needed to be happy. These old habits have caused problems in my relationships and they’ve kept me from making deep connections.
A combination of prayer, my training to be become a coach, creating and maintaining my own systems, and my Clarity Collage process have helped me understand I was hiding some of the best parts of myself from the world.
I needed to change. I had to allow myself to drop the armor so I could truly love and be loved. I needed to be willing to show my vulnerability. I needed to accept support from others so that I could truly support my own clients.
Getting real and getting vulnerableis the key
is the key
Getting real and getting vulnerable is the key
Vulnerability is essential to growth. Being vulnerable is about about being willing to look inside yourself and then being brave enough to show others who you are and what really matters to you.
It’s not easy, but based on what I’ve learned about daring to be real about who I am, what I’ve been through, and what I envision for my own life, I can promise you it’s so worth it.
When you stop trying to be perfect and quit trying to please everyone, amazing things begin to happen. When you release your fear of making a mistake, you can make magic.
I’m here to teach you how to trust the wise voice within so you can find your way to clarity and joy.
It’s time to learn how to trust the wise voice within so you can find your way to clarity and joy.
The processes I teach you are the processes that have changed my life.
Getting organized and creating my vision board encouraged me to move out of fear and empty dreams and into a reality full of safety and love. It's what helped me connect with divine truth, cope with grief, and develop a business that changes lives.
As you remove the emotional and physical clutter from your own life, you become crystal clear on how to pivot and embrace your vision. This clarity is an opportunity to see yourself in a happier light, express yourself with more confidence, and make lasting positive changes like you never have before.
I'm here to help you find your way as you take the next right step in your journey.